Saturday, 24 December 2011

A Christmas Miracle!!

Ok, we can now let the cat out of the bag! Sorry for the deception dear blog reader but I am overjoyed to announce that I am currently writing this post from the comfort of my own bedroom in Ballywalter! God Bless us, everyone!*

We submitted the visa application docs to the British Embassy on Wednesday as previously reported but I also made sure that I met one of the embassy staff that I had been in email contact with to plead our case for a quick decision. Visas can take up to 15 days to process, our agency told us the average wait is 4 days, we got ours at 9am the next morning! BIG answer to many prayers.

We then hatched a devious plan to tell no one, sneak home and surprise our family's... In the immortal words of Hannibal Smith "I love it when a plan comes together"! Operation Christmas miracle worked a treat and we were able to surprise everyone, Gary in particular was an emotional wreck!

Can't quite believe its Christmas eve and we are home, in our own beds with Leah and Will already asleep next door.

God is truly good, how thankful we are for answered prayer.

Amen.

Have a good Christmas everyone, I know we will!

Philip, Amanda, leah & Will


* (c) Charles Dickens


Snoozing on the plane.
The 'miracle' visa.
Domoedovo Airport 3.30am UK time
'Hello Granny'

Mission accomplished!

Friday, 23 December 2011

Nothing to report.

Its been four days now getting to know Will and it has been wonderful seeing his little personality emerge, I can confirm he will be no shrinking violet!

Some of the things we have learned about Will already,

He DOES NOT like being hungry, this is unfortunate as he is almost always hungry.
He has very low reserves of patience.
When he knows when hes not allowed to do something he tries to catch our eye and then makes sure he does it again.
He has a wonderful sense of fun, full of smiles and giggles.
He is very sweet and is constantly offering hugs and cuddles.
He loves attention, although he is surprisingly sturdy and quick on his feet he will not pass up any opportunity to be carried around.
He DOES NOT like to be hungry.

Now I understand that the first three things in particular are very un-Davidson like but I'm sure he will come around eventually!

Its not something we planned being out here over Christmas but I think we will look back on these moments as being very precious.

Few more pics now including the obese snowman of which i'm very proud!

Philip, Amanda, Leah & Will


Just been playing in the snow 'glow'!

Next years Christmas card sorted!

Better option for next years card?

Leah is immune to the cold.

Our Obese snowman

Will in his Jammies

'Come to your big sister'

Wednesday, 21 December 2011

One last hurdle...

Another early start this morning, sitting in traffic and gathering paperwork. Finally made our way to the British Embassy to submit our application for Wills visa.

All we can do now is wait and pray for a speedy response. Our agency originally told us to book our return flights for the 29th but we are hopeful for a little quicker than that, 26th or 27th would be great!

It's quite a relief actually that there is nothing more now that we can do, we intend to just enjoy these next few days together getting used to life as a family of four!

Will was a little unsettled last night which was only to be expected but he is coping incredibly well with what is a total change to everything he has ever known before. He's been asleep for almost 4 hours now though and has been eating really well all day, in fact he's already got a Davidson's attitude to being hungry, he doesn't like it!!

He really loves attention and is really easy to entertain, he also makes sure he keeps Amanda in sight at all times!

Also, I'm delighted to report that snow has arrived, Leah is over the moon and we played in the little park across from the apartment until we could now longer feel our fingers! After explaining to Leah that we couldn't play in the snow at nighttime we compromised by agreeing to return first thing in the morning to build a snowman!

Few more pics now and I'll be back once we have anything else to report!

Philip, Amanda, Leah & Will.

Snow has arrived!
Personalized blanket courtesy of J. Fulton!
The camera is adding a few pounds here, really!
"Wanna half-sucked rice cake?!"
Leah's very happy!

Tuesday, 20 December 2011

Wills Liberation Day!

What a day!  8 exhausting hours in the car altogether!  Started out at 8.30 AM visiting the vital statistics office to collect adoption order and new birth certificate then met the social worker to get an authorization order to release Will from the care of the baby home, passport office to get his Russian passport and then finally a 4 hour round trip to the Vidnoya Baby Home to get our son once and for all!!

Will has coped with the day unbelievably well, a real answer to prayer.  He has been happy and content all day, eaten his lunch and then napped for a couple of hours in Amanda's arms.  Now back at the apartment he has eaten a big bowl of pasta and cheese, played for a bit and is now down in his cot.  5 or 10mins of crying with Amanda going in and out quickly but he is now pretty quiet!!  So far......

To be fair Leah set the bar pretty low in the 'first night with our new child' stakes, if we manage to get through the night without Will being rushed to casualty at 3AM with a temp of 105degrees then we will have topped Leahs first night!!

It was lovely seeing Leah and Will meet for the first time, he already finds her very entertaining and she is taking her big sister responsibilities pretty seriously!

British Embassy tomorrow to submit Wills visa application documents and then the waiting will begin.....

Just a few pics and not the best quality but I'll post better ones tomorrow.

Praise the Lord for answered prayer thus far!  Thanks to all who have been praying, keep it up.

Philip, Amanda, Leah and Will!



Check out the T-Shirt!
One last visit to the rings.

'What do you mean you've no idea how much further?!'
Back in the apartment.


Leah stealing his chew rings to make Jewelry!










Monday, 19 December 2011

Moscow again

Just arrived in unseasonably warm and distinctly un-snowy Moscow, just hope for Leah's sake we get a bit of a snow storm before we leave! Apartment is really nice, much bigger than our last one, plenty of room for Leah and Will to charge around.

The third trip has finally arrived and we are getting very excited indeed about picking up Will once and for all tomorrow, It's great to have leah out with us this time and to say she is excited is a gross understatement!

Life is going to change forever tomorrow!

Continue to pray for our trip to the British embassy on Wednesday that all will go well with our visa application and that we will get home as quickly as possible.

I promise there will be some big sister and little brother pics tomorrow!

Philip, Amanda, Leah & Will.


Wednesday, 7 December 2011

It's a boy!

Phew, finally!!

Submitted the new document in court today and after taking a few minutes to explain the definition of Freehold as understood by UK law the judge finally accepted our application and we were free to proceed with the rest of the hearing. Ten minutes later after a few words from the prosecutor and then the Vidnoya social worker the judge retired to consider her ruling. Twenty minutes later she came back and announced that the adoption order had been granted and we would now be registered as the parents of, William Charles Vasili Davidson!

Thanks for all who were praying so hard for us we really appreciated it, we are thankful again to the God who hears and answers prayer!

Home tomorrow and then back out on the 19th with Leah to finally bring him home. It will be a tight thing to get his visa issued before the Christmas holidays but surely we are due an easy and straightforward trip after the trial and tribulations of our first two trips?! We will see....


Philip, Amanda, Leah & Will.


Outside Court.

Tuesday, 6 December 2011

So close...

*Deep calming breaths*

It was all going so well, Amanda and I had given our little speeches, all the docs looked to be in order, answered a few simple questions from the prosecutor about Leah and just at the final hurdle the judge asked for proof that we owned the land our house is built on.  We pointed out our letter from our bank confirming that we owned the property at our address, etc but apparently this is not good enough, she wanted a letter confirming we owned the land also!

To be admissible in a Russian court every document must be notarized and legalized so it was not an option to simply have a document emailed from home, aarrgghh!!

Thankfully we brought an additional letter from our bank which again confirms we are the property owner and also that the title on the property is freehold.  The definition of Freehold in UK law means that we own both the house AND the land. 

So.  We are having this letter translated and notarized today, along with some notes on the definition of freehold under UK law and we are heading back to the court tomorrow at 2.30pm to resume the hearing and we trust and pray that the court will be satisfied with this clarification.

We were due to fly back home tomorrow afternoon so after leaving the court today we had to embark on a 5 hour round trip within Moscow to get to a BMI office and change our flight times.  There are MASSIVE pro Putin and anti Putin demonstrations all round Moscow today after last nights elections so the traffic which is normally  merely horrific is now something approaching a crime against humanity!

After some light gouging by the BMI cashier we are now back in our apartment and reflecting on the last few hours.  we expected a pleasant 45mins in court followed by a trip out to see Will officially as his parents.  Didn't quite work out that way but we still believe that everything is in Gods hands and we trust that our court visit tomorrow will go according to plan.

We then leave our apartment at 4AM on Thursday morning and should arrive in Belfast some time that afternoon.  As always, only predictable thing about inter-country adoption is its unpredictability!!

*More deep calming breaths*

Philip & Amanda


Monday, 5 December 2011

Court Tomorrow...

Our day (45mins) in court has finally arrived! Getting collected nice and early in the morning to allow a little prep time with our interpreter before our hearing at 10.30.

We have to introduce ourselves, give a little family background and our reasons for coming to Moscow, etc and the whole process should be wrapped up within 45mins. The adoption court process is generally pretty informal but it will be nice to get it all done and dusted!

After court we should have enough time to visit Will, this time we will officially be his parents!!

Pray that all will go well.

Philip & Amanda

Outfits not getting any better!
Will eating = Will happy!
Snowing in NI, bright and sunny in Moscow?!?

Saturday, 3 December 2011

Second day

Another nice visit with Will today, he was in great form! Nice though Moscow is though we are counting down the days till we collect his visa from the British Embassy and get home, can't wait till we all get back to sunny Northern Ireland for good!

Other notable highlights of the day include,

Going out for my birthday dinner in McDonalds.

Amanda having her phone stolen.

Walking around Red Square, photos don't begin to do it justice!

Only 3 days now until court!

Philip & Amanda




Last person seen with AJ's phone before it was stolen!!   hmmmm...
Latest Crime against fashion!!
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Red  Square
GUM shopping centre




Friday, 2 December 2011

Meeting Will again.

Forgot just how bad the traffic was here, our 15mile journey took an hour but we eventually made it out to the baby house to see Will again, first time in 2 months!

He's noticeably bigger since we were last out also, words cannot adequately convey just how curly his hair is, it's a big curly bush!! He has also just started to walk in the last week or so, he's very impressed with himself and waits for a fuss when he manages to walk a few steps, carers also say that he has really come on since we were last there, 'a very clever boy' was the exact quote!

Also got a little encouraging news about the passports, new rules apply to 'Moscow' adoptions however we are adopting from 'Moscow Region' which in reality is only about 5miles outside the city but seemingly that is far enough away to mean that the new rule does not apply. The fine print worked in our favour this time!

Anyway, unto a few more pics, i know why you're really here!!

Philip & Amanda



Will and Mummy
Look how clever I am!
Still loves Leah's keys
The Bush!!

Round Two...

Made it to Moscow, no snow and unseasonably warm... very disappointing!

The city looks beautiful though, massive Christmas trees everywhere and the buildings and bridges are decorated with MILLIONS of lights.

Apartment is nice, much closer to the centre and only a 15 walk from Red Square. There is a 24hr supermarket right across the street, the building is ridiculously grand and magnificent and in any other city would house an art gallery or museum but in Moscow it's only good enough sell groceries!

Getting picked up soon for our visit to see Will again, cant wait! We will also have a chat with our agency to see it there is anything to speed up our next visit, we will keep you posted.

Philip & Amanda

Thursday, 1 December 2011

Moscow tomorrow!

Time has finally come for our second trip and we head out early tomorrow morning.  Leaving Belfast and a balmy 10 degrees we arrive via London 8 hours later to snow, traffic jams and a couple of degrees above freezing if we're lucky!  Really looking forward to seeing Will again though, its been a long 8 weeks!!

However it wouldn't be an adoption without unforeseen problems cropping up just when things seem to be running smoothly, we just found out yesterday that Russia have changed the rules slightly regarding issuing passports.  Until very recently our agency in Moscow could apply for Wills passport in our absence and it would be waiting for us when we arrived for our third trip.  This has now changed and we have to be there in person to apply for the passport and it will take a further 5 days to be processed.  This means that if we arrive on the 20th, after the appeal period has expired as planned, then it will be the 25th December before the passport is issued, if you are keeping up then you will have already realised that is in fact Christmas day and the staff in Stormont will be eating turkey, pulling crackers and will not return to the office to process our entry clearance until the 3rd January at the earliest, just to make it even better our visa's expire on the 29th December.

We will try to get more info from our agency directly over the next few days but it looks like our potential options are as follows,

1.  The judge, in an admittedly uncharacteristic move appreciates the extenuating circumstances decides to waive or  reduce the appeal period thus allowing us to return much earlier and get all the paperwork sorted out before the holiday period.

2.  We return home as planned, scrap our existing visas and apply for new visas which extend into January then fly out last week of December and return first week of January.

Option one would be fantastic though in reality highly unlikely. 

Pray that we will get some positive and a clear direction in the next few days.  A Christmas miracle would be nice!!

Brace yourselves for a few more pics of Will in the coming days....

Philip & Amanda

Thursday, 17 November 2011

Court Date

Good news, we have our court date, 6th December 2011!  We need to be back in Russia on the 1st to complete the required number of visiting days, court on the 6th then home on the 7th.

Spent the last week or so getting flights booked, accommodation sorted, new documents for court and visa's applied for.  Most things sorted now, just waiting for our visa's to come back and unfortunately we also need to redo some docs for court as a batch we send out to Russia over two weeks ago seem to have been lost!

Just counting down the days now until we can get back to see Will, then home for 2 weeks and back with Leah for the third trip around the 20th December.  Looks like we are guaranteed a white Christmas this year!!

Philip, Amanda & Leah

Wednesday, 12 October 2011

Home.

Back a couple of days now and mixed emotions to say the least, on one hand it's great to be back as we really missed Leah, especially strange for Amanda who spends so much time with her to suddenly be away from her for so long.  At the same time though it feels very surreal to have spent so much time and energy and effort in finally getting to the stage where we could meet Will to suddenly leave him again only 3 days later.

Still, we have been told the time will pass quickly, hope so.... only 7 and a half weeks until we travel out again for court!

Pray that he will be preserved in our absence and that the rest of the trips will go as scheduled.  Still a reasonable chance of being back home for good last few days of December!

Anyway, enough chat unto a few pics...

Philip, Amanda, Leah & Will

Finally...

Not hard to make him smile!

As you can see!

Was fascinated by leaves when we went out at first.

Loved playing with the rings.

His 'happy' place, being carried around by mummy and daddy!